Showing posts with label politics. Show all posts
Showing posts with label politics. Show all posts

Friday, October 3, 2025

The Calm Before the Storm: A Dispatch from Texas

Have you ever been driving on the highway and, in the distance, you see ominous dark clouds ahead? You're not sure if the storm will hit you, but it's getting closer with each mile.   


This is the best I could do from my photo collection. This was near the Grand Canyon. 

For years, politics was politics, and the ivory tower was unmoved. 

We discussed ideas, challenged the status quo, and maybe changed a few minds here and there. Even if some didn't like higher ed or the values of critical thinking, diversity, and embracing an open and free society.....it seemed we were removed from political consequences. Of course, it was red meat to the base to take potshots at academics, but to a large degree, a truce was formed. It was obvious enough that society needed an educated workforce, but higher education also provided publicly funded research in science and medicine to benefit the country's corporations. Quality colleges and universities brought not just global prestige but an influx of wealthy foreigners, ready to stay and benefit the US economy.. Sure, the faculty and leadership would always skew to the left, but this seemed to be the accepted price tag. 

To be honest, it's a dirty little secret that universities and colleges have little to no influence in the political realm. Despite all the screaming about "indoctrination", if colleges really did indoctrinate, why aren't there more leftists in power?  The brainwashing hasn't been very effective.  Public universities have largely embraced and supported American capitalism and foreign policy. After all, who was educating the Wall Street and political leaders? 

The power of the ivory tower was largely symbolic. If you want proof of just how limited that power of higher education was, just look at our society today. It didn't stop the storm. At best, the power was limited to the broader culture, reinforced by the entertainment culture.  Many educated leaders could be shamed into appearing non-racist, non-homophobic, etc., and sometimes these beliefs were even acted upon in small but meaningful actions.  

After decades of ingesting misinformation, conspiracies, and lies, the time was ripe for change. MAGA extremists didn't want to bring in foreign students, they didn't want the government spending money on research, and they definitely didn't appreciate that educated people tend to vote against MAGA. So, the truce that had held since World War II was over. War was declared.  

For rightwing billionaires and a political class groomed by Rush Limbaugh, Fox News, and Alex Jones, it wasn't just about taking away even the small amount of power and influence colleges and universities had, but it was also about control. 

Make no mistake, the many culture wars were created to foster division between the classes to keep the elites in power. But those in power have been listening to the right-wing media conspiracies, and an ideology fueled by resentment, hate, and scorched-earth partisanship.  It is now a self-propelled beast; the media is fueled by the billionaires who are fueled by social media conspiracies and misinformation, which in turn feeds back into mainstream media. 

I have been directly impacted on my campus. There's a chill in the air, and some people can't be trusted anymore. 

Some words and concepts can't be discussed, but the administration won't say anything in writing, because they are scared. Of course, nothing is illegal to teach, but the governor can just ask for anyone to be fired, and it will be done. In the past month, university systems have banned words and concepts from the classroom. 

Some might think this is an obvious over-reach. The checks on power in our old system came from the checks and balances of the three branches of government, a sense of shame AND from an engaged citizenry at the ballot box. If the other side ever takes power, the roles could be reversed, etc., etc. 

However, these "checks" are all gone because all the branches are controlled by one party; they have no shame, and they don't plan on giving up power again. 

Even before the blog post was finished, the storm came for me. Something I have worked on for over a decade is gone. It was my professional life's work, and I was going to do it until I retired.  They took it from us, even without complaint, without a single controversy; they simply didn't want to worry about it or carry the risk. 

There was no compromise, just capitulation. 

It doesn't just end there. There are rumors of the core curriculum being cut, changing accreditation agencies (that will enforce some kind of political "diversity" or censorship).  Of course, it's not just higher ed; we are all under the storm clouds.  

Seek cover and batten down the hatches, the storm is here and there's no break in sight. Hang on as best you can. 

Thursday, December 7, 2023

The Dark Side of the Lighterside.com T-shirts

Junk mail? What's it good for? 

Well, in at least this case, a blog post. 

Edit 2024: Well I found this unfinished draft. I am pretty sure I wanted to take a look at 4-5 shirts but two shirts will just have to be where it ends....

Apparently, the people that lived at our current address must have received a catalog from a company called "The Lighter Side".  Inside, however, something dark, very dark lurked. Barf-inducing t-shirts. Yeah, let's take a look.  Here are some t-shirts worn by "REAL AMERICANS" they might be wearing right now! 



Check out this macho shirt. That's right folks, we don't run from a fight, oh, HELL NO. 

When 12 dudes decided to use airplanes for murder, we didn't run, NO SIR. Instead, we will spend at least $2.7 trillion over twenty years on war (that was in 2017). 


Yeah, those terrorists that attacked on 9/11 got us good but we sure showed them. Sure, they were dead. Sure, they wanted us to bumble into a decades-long war, but we sure showed them....something. 

But that's not all, it's not all about money. After all, we RELOAD!!! The result would be over 7,000 US troops dead, hundreds of thousands of Iraqi & Afghani civilians dead, hundreds of thousands more severely injured, hundreds of thousands traumatized, millions more would suffer the loss of a close family member or friend and don't forget, tens of thousands more to die by suicide as a direct result of their service or the trauma suffered during our twenty-year plus war on Iraq and Afghanistan. 

Yup, good thing we didn't run, that sure would be a God damn shame. 






The arrogance on this t-shirt is something to behold and it explains the way people who would buy this shirt see the world: full of danger, criminals, and the certainty that they know better. 

I sure as hell don't like guns they kill about 40,000 Americans a year but you don't have to like or dislike guns to know that your house is much safer WITHOUT a gun in it than it is with it.  I know this first hand from personal experience in our family. 

If you have a gun in your house you are more likely to have an accidental shooting or murder in your home. This has been seen in study,after study, after study.....The fantasy of saving your family from someone trying to break into your home is a powerful narrative but life is more boring for most of us. 

In fact, the gun in someone's home is much more likely to be used for suicide by a family member than in home defense action.  Half of US gun deaths are suicides. But of course, no, those things wouldn't happen to you, just couldn't happen.  We know 17 of the 20 states with the highest gun death rates are dyed-in-the-wool Republican states. More guns and ease of access to guns equals more deaths and more shootings. It's not that difficult to figure out, but it's a point often challenged. 

The narrative of saving the day is so powerful it plays to ideas of masculinity and a media obsessed with danger, violence, and crime. In many ways, gun ownership becomes a conservative self-own. 

If guns kept us safer, then our death cult country would be safer than our industrialized peers and that's not what the data shows us. We've been fooled, conned, and bamboozled into signing up to the notion that we can't change the way things are....and that the only way out of the problem is more of the problem. 

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Fragments of UPDATES

You know what I'm happy about? Spring is here (at least in South Texas).

It's time to UPDATE you on my life.

COMIC BOOK THOUGHT UPDATE:

I was reading some early 80's Avengers lately (some just sit on the back of my toilet perpetually). And ya know, what's the point of Wonder Man? He's terrible....as in terribly boring. Boring personality, boring powers, boring costume, boring, BORING, BORING. Why did he exist as a reoccurring character in the freaking Avengers for decades? Who likes Wonder Man? Was he anyone's favorite character in the history of mankind? He sucks. He's stupid. Also, he's boring.

LOS SPURS UPDATE

Just when I thought we'd land in the lottery again, they get good. Blah.

MASS SHOOTING UPDATE 
 
Did you hear about the shooting?

Just kidding of course you did, there's one just about every other week.

CONCERT(S) UPDATE:
 
Taking C (just turned 12 in March) to her first rock concert in June. Weezer!! (Pixies-Weezer in Austin). If you would have told me in December of 1996 after my first Weezer concert I would be taking my 12 year-old daughter to a Weezer concert 22 years later I think I would have flipped my lid. She's excited and so am I. In the meantime I will be going to the Breeders show in Austin a few weeks. One of those bands I have always had on my list. Should be a great one.

MUSIC UPDATE

I have been loving Sufjan Stevens "Carrie and Lowell". It has become my favorite album of his. Soul crushingly sad, amazing, beautiful. Listen to it and let it into your heart.

Also, Weezer's White Album is still so good. (review forthcoming sometime in the 2020's).

I know these albums are a couple of years old but they've been my go-to on and off for two months.

WE WENT MARCHING UPDATE

It felt good to do something, even if it won't change immediately. 

SICK BURN


Shared this on FB and my sister pointed out that she had a grammar mistake on it. Like, who cares sis? ITS A GREAT POSTER. Also, she didn't comment on anything else or like the photos. So I am deleting her comment right this second.

        
H: He said he wanted to wear this Beatles shirt ("All You Need is Love")

C - Hard to read but says Humans > Guns.
 
    
E: This poster was a big hit. It is also true. A TRUE INDISPUTABLE FACT
  



GUN CONTROL UPDATE:

I AM COMING FOR YOUR GUNS.


MOVIE UPDATE

I saw COCO. It was good. Surprisingly I didn't cry but I came close.

BLOG UPDATE

Blog is now updated. Good night to you, don't forget to practice being kind, even when it's hard. That's when you're really tested and your character shows.

Sunday, August 2, 2015

Who Would Jesus De-friend? The Problem with American Christianity

One of my FB "friends" posted this the other day:

"If you in any way, shape, or form support Planned Parenthood, please unfriend me now. You are no friend of mine."

Of course, this was in response to the recent Planned Parenthood controversy. Of course, she is a conservative Christian.

My mind instantly contrasted her attitude with that of  Jesus'.  So, I thought of questions I could send her:

  • Who would Jesus "unfriend"? 
  • Wouldn't you be more likely to change a friend's mind on abortion if they remained your FB "friend"? 
  • Might your attitude help reinforce stereotypes of the "Judgmental Christian"?
  • Could your attitude help foster ill will towards your political allies and more importantly, Christianity? 

Of course I didn't send them.

I am sure she posted out of sheer anger and frustration. I am sure she felt compelled to preach the "truth" to others because she (and I) feel like we have little control over a crazy world around us. I suppose the real question to ask is:

When will Christians figure it out?

Love is the answer, not judging.

You will not change minds by being angry. You will not change minds by screaming at people in person or online on Facebook. You will most certainly not change minds by allying yourself with politicians. 20th century Christianity sold it's soul for 3 more decades of "cultural relevance" but its alignment with politics has left it bankrupt in the mind of the public.

Christians are seen as walking in lockstep with the GOP. Christians are often seen as mean, judgmental, anti-poor, even anti-tipping! Christians are generally seen to hate homosexuals and even science. The stereotype ain't that far off, either. They are defined by fear, repression and basically the word "no".

Judging others dismisses their perspective and makes the other person feel angry and not valued.

Love includes others in the conversation, listens and gains respect of the other person.

I don't blame my "friend" for the downfall of American Christianity, but she sure ain't helping either.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Flashback: MLK Day 2012

We purchased a new PC around three years ago and all the pressure to delete photos on the basis of quality, redundancy, etc. faded.

About 8 months ago we stopped even organizing by month. Which was just a huge mess.

So, I am "working" about a 1-3 months each night, I turn the photos the right away, organize and delete between 100-200 photos a night. I have at least two more years to really go through. It's pretty daunting, but it makes me feel good. It feeds my little OCD monster inside.

I am finally in 2012 and I found this gem from the MLK walk in 2012. I think it's a pretty neat dream too.


Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Frothy Fragments

So, it's two steps forward, three steps back with this blog.

Here are you updates because the BLOG GODS demanded it.

You could say I was lazy and that would be half right but the real reason I haven't been writing that much is because of the Spurs playoff run. I was supposed to write about it (making this great connection about the death of my youth and the Spurs probable last title run) but it was all so exhausting emotionally and physically (because the games were so late). It didn't help the little guy has seemed to be teething for the past 75 nights either. On nights without games I was drained.

It also doesn't help I have been busier than I have ever been in a summer. 5 classes crammed in 3 months.  3 classes going on right now, kinda crazy. One is a history class so I have to prep. That sucks too.

Did I mention it sucked that the Spurs lost? Yeah, that sucked.

Finished my summer abroad application in May then I forgot I had to do a spring assessment for my discipline so then I had to rush to work on that. My head has been here, there and everywhere and I know I am rushing headlong into the fall with a new course to teach (World Cultures) and it's likely I will be close to total burnout in August. OHS WELLS. Lots of  ALL CAPS this blog post, so sorry genteel readers.

In good news my daughter penned a letter to the president asking him to stop the the use of drone bombings. So proud of her. She had seen the cover of my Sojourners magazine for this month and asked some questions about it.






So, she asked if she could write a letter to President Obama and I said yes. It wasn't my idea at all but I did help her craft the letter a little.  I am sure we will soon be on the TERROR WATCH LIST. Especially combined with the fact one of our children has an Arabic name and I am one of those infamous LIBRUL professors. Cheers, Uncle Sam! 

Here's the letter she wrote. So proud of my little C! 


Other good news: My wife and I celebrated our 10th anniversary this month. So crazy. We had a good little time -- she is the best. She proves the cliche, she is my "better half".

Did I mention the Spurs losing sucked? Oh, game six was like a punch in the face, not punch to the gut, .04 in 2004 was a punch in the gut (injustice), this was more like a punch to the face. Well, actually maybe it was more like an involuntary punch to the face from your own fist as we handed them the game and thus, the series and thus the championship.  I still have flashbacks in the middle of the night when I am holding the baby late at night or randomly in the car on my way to work. After the game I have been in total sports media blackout (not that hard as we don't have cable and there is nothing going on the sports world I care about anyhoo). 

Totally on a Sirrachha Sauce kick. So good on just everything, soups, chili, pizza, grilled cheese sandwiches, nachos, spaghetti, and mac and cheese.  Anything we have ketchup with I mix it in that STUFF. 

Having watched so much of the NBA playoffs I noticed so many summer movie commercials. All of them looked dreadfully awful and stupid. Who is going to these movies?  How many 14 year-olds are there that can make a blockbuster so easily? Am I becoming old and so removed from my culture that I can't relate to the masses?  Also, we're obsessed with Zombies and the end of the world. So weird. 

Gotta go. My Evening Plans: 

Make me some nachos with Sirrachha sauce, watch an Adventure Time episode and start grading my online class. I don't want to grade. 



Did I mention the Spurs losing in the NBA Finals really sucked?

Monday, September 26, 2011

Fiery Fragments

I once heard the future of music in Beck but I guess we're still catching up to the 90's even now. I heard some clips of the new Wilco on NPR and that sounded promising and I don't really dig Wilco all that much but I will be checking it out.

I agree with this sign:













I go through these times when I can remember several night's dreams in a row and then go weeks without remembering a thing. Right now I can't remember much of anything....and what I am remembering is boring. The other night I felt like I woke up from something really exciting but no memories.

Star Trek Update: Just started season 4 - off to a great start with the first two episodes even though the second was more of transition episode, especially re-watching without a summer break - I needed the rest.

Love my classes, hate the grading. Blah.

In many ways our current political system is really not class warfare but generational warfare - the baby boomers showing their classic lack of restraint - they had the heavily subsidized education and government programs (can you ever imagine an actual politician today declaring a "war on poverty" - they would be laughed out of the room and dismissed). Of course, the beneficiaries of the "greatest generation" will now retain their benefits at the end of their lives but will happily (in the name of sacrifice, ya know) cut the rest of ours.  They will also deconstruct our social safety net, and strip our public education and government of middle class jobs.  All for a sacrifice so that we don't raise taxes on the wealthy.  (Steps off soap box huffing)

If you don't know we are adopting and on a wait list. It feels like we've been on it forever although it's only been officially a year this week (unofficially we began the process almost two years). Ready to go but I have always found the in-between times in life offer much in the way of reflection, study, etc.

Monday, September 12, 2011

Pic Dump # 1

Some fun stuff I have picked up the last year but never quite found a place for it on the blog for one reason or another....Enjoy!











Monday, September 5, 2011

Late Night Fragments

I don't know why I am posting I have actual work to do - and it's late.


Is there a holiday more removed from its original intent than Labor Day? (if you celebrate too much or even mention its real reason you might be deemed a socialist, so be careful out there).

Why do restaurants still think its funny to place the "Alcoholic Drinking Can Be Harmful If Pregnant" warning on the backs of doors in men's rooms? Does this ever trick anyone anymore? I think this was probabley funny the first time someone did it. It's not anymore. We know the trick okay? It's just stupid now.

British English: I love the use of "brilliant" hate the pronunciation of "schedule".

Started a team in a fantasy football league. This could be trouble if I am actually good.

I have a student in my class who has had an Anne Coulter and Michelle Malkin book proudly displayed on the desk during different class days. I will do my best to turn him to the dark side. It's not impossible - I voted for Dole in 96 as a sophomore and for Nader as a fifth year senior. How's that for a change?

In case you were wondering, my favorite Beatles albums (in order, and subject to change)

Revolver

White Album (sheer number of songs wins me over)

Sgt. Pepper's (just barely over Abbey)

Abbey Road

Rubber Soul

Let It Be

(All the early stuff sounds the same to me, so it goes down here)

(and no, I don't count Magical Mystery Tour as a proper album)

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Charity, Capitalism and Rebellion (or "I got stuff to do, someone else start the revolution")

"Under a capitalist regime, the man who says he is neutral is considered objectively to be favorable to the regime" - Camus, The Rebel


We all like to think of ourselves as good people. We are all the protagonists of our respective books…that’s just human nature. The differences among us can be found in how we define “good” and how we implement it into our own lives and identities. The last few years I have struggled with how to work “good” acts within an immoral system (capitalism). When I found this video, it was nice to have someone else much more articulate than myself define the problem – watch below – the speech is great and the artwork is amazing.





To sum up the video (for those too lazy): our charitable acts end up contributing to a morally bankrupt system. The very act of compassion actually helps support the broken system. It’s as if we are prolonging a painful death in the name of love and compassion. According to the video, when I go to the homeless shelter I am actually working against the homeless and those in poverty by supporting the current economic and political systems that make homelessness and poverty not only possible, but in many ways enable and justify poverty.

Maybe it’s all just a dose of liberal guilt – you know you have it if you feel guilty for throwing away that can or plastic bottle instead of recycling (hence my car is full of bottles, cans and other items that can be recycled at home but never actually make it to the house). The question is, how should we work for "the good" in an all-present system that our culture celebrates (and defends at the drop of a hat).

Yes, I am insinuating capitalism borders on the equivalence of evil of robots that take over the world.


Even by calling our system "immoral" myself I am beyond the pale of American politics.



Drop the Kool-Aide, this guy would be a moderate Republican in the 70's and 80's.

How do you fight to change something that has no hope of ending within my lifetime (or even my children's lifetime)?I always teach and preach that, “we do what we can when we can". But is that enough? Is it ever enough? I don't have a option really. I have a family and bills to pay. So is Camus right? If living out life means that I'm neutral than there's never enough I can do. I've already embraced the dark side. Maybe this is why radicals never have families (Jesus, Buddha, etc.). You can't live out revolution if you've got kids to feed. That's the history of the world really - we're all too busy trying to survive (I hesitate to use the word "survive"; as my "surviving" is much different from survival in Somalia).

So, I'll do what I can. I'll read, think and act carefully. I'll teach about the nature of the beast in my class and plant seeds of doubt in those I interact with (believe me, my seeds are subtle and won't require a whole discussion on socialism, capitalism nor a "revolution" of any kind -- I'm too domesticated for that).

Besides, I have to mow the lawn and we all can't be revolutionaries.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Thinking Out Loud

If......

Infants and Children that die go to heaven
and
Many people (once grown) will not go to heaven but will go to hell and be punished eternally.

And....

Abortion is morally wrong because life starts at conception, as we have a soul at conception....

Then....

Couldn't you make the case abortion is actually more moral than not aborting as it will save many people from an eternity of suffering?

Reality Check: Not saying abortion is great or anything, just exploring the fun of conservative "conventional wisdom".

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Poorly Thought Out Moments I Can Think of Off the Top of my Head

Sarah Palin's Speech on the Tucson Shooting

Michael Jordan's Hall of Fame Acceptance Speech

"Clinging to Guns and Religion" - Obama

"Heck of a job Brownie" - "W" Actually the entire Bush presidency was poorly thought out when you think about it (but that wouldn't be a moment now, would it?)

Just about every Glenn Beck show I've watched.

Kevin Garnett after the 2008 finals

Friday, September 10, 2010

sad day

9 years ago on a Friday night I almost died.  I was driving north of Brady, Texas at dusk (otherwise known as the middle of nowhere).  I veered my truck in a lame attempt to dodge 2-3 deer who wanted to cross the road.  I not only managed to hit one of the deer but fliped my truck at least 4-5 times.

My left arm was bleeding pretty bad and I knew I was starting to experience shock.  As my vision faded in and out, the thing I remember most was just wanting to live.  There was no baragining with God or reflecting on how I had lived life - no pain, no fear - just a desire to live.

Eventually, I had to be cut out of the truck and had to be taken to the hospital.  I had a fractured wrist, 2nd-3rd degree "road rash" burns on my left arm and hand and had over 40 stitches.  I was blessed to make it out so nicely.  I was happy to be alive and trying to figure out what it all "meant".

I was a full-time graduate student and a part time substitute teacher so I didn't have to go to work and had no plans to work for at least a week. Having experienced my own existential crisis on Friday made Tuesday all the more real and emotional.

Tuesday morning, my mom woke me up (I was living with my parents) to tell me a plane had hit one of the World Trade Center towers. This was still very early so the media was still trying to figure out if it was an accident.  Like everyone else, the rest of the day had me glued to the television like no other time before or since.

I had a class that night and reluctantly left home. As I drove to school I realized that we would probably bomb someone for this. I had already realized that's just what the murderers probably wanted. It was a test they knew we would fail.

Tonight I think back with regret and sadness for that day. I think back with a heavy heart to the toll that 9/11 took on the world.  Not only in its impact that day but for the foreign policy nightmare that started the very next day.

9 years later and hundreds of thousands more dead, we've seen more blood, violence and tears than we could have imagined at the time. Now we're saddled with the never-ending political football called "The War on Terror".

It's enough to make you cry all over again.

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Keepin' it Real in the Fake World

I was listening to NPR the other morning when I heard my Texas senator, John Cornyn say that Supreme Court nominee, Elena Kagan's had experience in academia but no "real world" experience.

This isn't the first time I have heard folks refer to those of us who teach at the college or university level as lacking "real world" experience.

Now, that I think about it, it's all true. Most of my life is not in the "real world" at all...

Rating my Reality at Work

Teaching = definitely not real
Organizing lessons = sorta kinda real, but not really.
Creating assessments = trapping students, not a fair and balanced reality
Grading = subjectively non-reality
Serving on Committees = drawing/day dreaming in meetings = not real
Dealing with Student-Instructor Conflicts = seemingly real but conflict based on "non reality" of the classroom, thus making it pure fantasy
Designing Schedule/Purchasing = real on some level by its method of input, fake in the abstract
Research = not real, most likely research with a liberal basis, meaning non-facts
Writing = real in concept;  but because it's not written with the purpose of selling something or trying to elect someone, it's as real as unicorns or global warming.
(okay, so I'm not really researching or writing but ya know, it's a possibility in my field of "fake work")

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Wishing People Dead

Today, one of my "friends" on Facebook posted this:

"DEAR LORD, THIS YEAR YOU TOOK MY FAVORITE ACTOR, PATRICK SWAYZIE. YOU TOOK MY FAVORITE ACTRESS, FARAH FAWCETT. YOU TOOK MY FAVORITE SINGER, MICHAEL JACKSON. I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW, MY FAVORITE PRESIDENT IS BARACK OBAMA. AMEN. I saw this on a friends post and couldnt help but repost it."


First off, you know it's gonna be a doozy because it's ALL IN CAPS. Second, they clearly have to get out and see more movies, I mean Patrick Swayze and Farrah Fawcett are their favorite actors? Wow.


Did you Know? Road House is required by law to be shown on Saturday afternoons on at least one channel in at least 2 states?  


What is about Facebook and the internet in general that makes rude, threatening, even violent comments acceptable? By the time I saw the post, two people already "liked it".  I commented, "I don't think it's cool to wish anyone dead. sorry!"  As much as I didn't like our past presidents, I never wished them to die because I disagreed with their policies. Look, I'm not a humorless guy...but I do have boundaries.  I know, I know, I am just a crazy "liberal" and "social progressive" out to try to control what people think....but I digress...


Earlier this year, another "friend" of mine became a "fan" of "Requiring People on Welfare to Take Drug Tests". I actually found the idea offensive and actually stupid and I couldn't stay silent (if you know me, you'll know I take ill-advised "stands" all the time). I paraphrase my quote, but I believe I stated, "I know where this is coming from, but this is mean-spirited and a bad idea". I smiled and congratulated myself on my self restraint.  Within minutes, I was lambasted by another "friend" who dragged in an off topic policy subject to point out I was just a crazy "liberal" (I'm leaving out all the dirty details for your own sanity).

I further tried to make a bad situation worse by you know, using common sense...I posted that while everyone is against abuse, a blanket policy would be a waste of tax payer money and it assumed that everyone poor was using drugs. I didn't name call or make accusations, I just tried to stick to the inane policy that had been suggested.

A few minutes later another person (not a "friend") suggested they ought to give reading and writing tests to receive welfare! They were actually serious. (While we're at it, why don't we bring back the poll tax and bring back those colonial laws that restricted the right to vote for only property-owning males).

The fascinating thing about it all is that Facebook has led to the destruction of many friendships due to political arguments.  I've know a few people who have "de-friended" because of political posts.  Debates that would have never happened in "polite company". Instead, the instantaneous impulse and dramatic, over-the-top rhetoric allows one to learn more than you like about your "friends".

It doesn't help when "main stream" media type folks make comparisons between Hitler and Obama. I know peace activists might have done that with W - but no one took it seriously and it was never made by a talk show host that has millions of mind-numbing fans.


Did you know? Glenn Beck is a Mormon.  I just found that out the other day. It's true.


Anyway the point is - is that friends should repress any political discussion and pretend that differences don't exist.  

Well, that's not actually my point...my point is, is that people should put some thought into what they are writing before they post. Maybe they should think through what their post implies or what their "liking" something really means. Maybe we should all support basic human decency....like not wishing people dead.  I know, I'm a dreamer.

I haven't de-friended anyone, at least not yet......

Postscript Update: My comment was deleted.